Sunday, January 22, 2012

Unplanned Visit to the NICU


You expect your delivery, especially the first one, to be textbook.  The baby’s born, dad cuts the cord, baby’s nose is suctioned and he cries, and he’s then placed on mom’s chest and everything is perfect.  We didn’t quite have that experience with Mr. Miles.  He did cry immediately and the doctor quelled our suspense by shouting “it’s a boy”. But then the nurses brought the baby over to a side neonatal area and started working on him. While it was all a bit surreal, we knew immediately that something was wrong. We soon learned that while his Apgar Score was 9 and then 8 (10 is the best), he was having trouble keeping his oxygen levels up and would need to be transported to the NICU. Rob and I each got to hold him for a couple of minutes before he was whisked away.

It was eerily quiet and uncertainty and fear were starting to set in. Somehow I was calmer that Rob (probably the drugs), but also we knew that he was in good hands…and we only came to realize this more and more as the week unfolded. The nurses and doctors in the NICU were absolutely amazing, keeping us informed and him improving at every turn.  While the doctors prepared us for the worst case scenario, after a couple of days it became clear that worst case scenario was thankfully out of the picture. Miles aspirated on some amniotic fluid and that led to an infection. He was on antibiotics until his CRP levels (which indicate inflammation, a sign of infection) were reading below 5.  It was one of the longest weeks of our lives but again, the amazing care Miles received – along with our love and support and the good thoughts and prayers of our family and friends – helped him to quickly recover and thrive.    

During our morning 6am feeding today, I heard the good news that our score was below 5 and we were going home! I couldn’t wait to get back to our Ronald McDonald house room (where we are so grateful to have stayed while Miles was in the NICU) to tell Rob the good news. And this afternoon, we brought home our healthy baby boy!

1 comment:

Jen O. said...

Rob told me you guys were going to reinstate the blog in honor of MIles' arrival! Yay!

I'm sorry you had to go through such a harrowing experience the first week of Miles' arrival, but glad he is doing well now.

Great seeing all three of you before your departure. Good luck with the move and settling in!